I used to think narcissists, including my own family, were just cruel people… cold, calculating, and heartless. I couldn’t wrap my head around how someone could lie so easily, twist the truth, or smile while cutting you to pieces. For most of my life, I thought it was just a character flaw. Then I stumbled ... Read more
I used to waste my breath trying to explain basic decency to my narcissistic family and ex… until I realized silence (or the right quote) hits harder. The kind of quote that doesn’t beg for understanding, doesn’t argue, doesn’t explain. Just stands there, calm and clear, while their ego scrambles for control. If you’ve ever ... Read more
I used to apologize every time I said no to my toxic mother, even to my narcissistic siblings. Every. Single. Time. Like I was inconveniencing them by taking care of myself. Like, setting boundaries was something to feel guilty about. Back then, I didn’t know that “no” was a complete sentence. I thought I owed ... Read more
Narcissists wear different masks, depending on who they want to deceive. But what happens when they take them off? Here are 5 brutal confessions straight from behind the narcissist’s smile. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling like your reality just got rewritten, you’re not imagining things. Narcissists have a way of making ... Read more
I used to think I was a pushover for my toxic family. I thought it was love. Turns out, it was a psychological trap. The same one that scientis used to test on rats. Can you believe it? There were days when my mom was kind. She’d compliment me, offer help, even act proud. And ... Read more
I spent years hanging on to people who drained me, hoping they’d change. I thought I was the problem and believed that cutting them off meant I was cold-hearted. Especially because they were my family. I told myself to be patient. To forgive. To try harder. I kept showing up for people who only showed ... Read more
The first time my narcissistic mother said, “I’m sorry you feel that way,” I actually thought we had a breakthrough. For a brief moment, I felt seen. Like maybe, just maybe, she was beginning to understand the years of pain she’d caused. I was soooo wrong. What I thought was an apology turned out to ... Read more
The day I walked away for good, I stood in front of my bathroom mirror and barely recognized the woman staring back. My eyes looked tired in a way makeup couldn’t fix. My shoulders slumped like they were carrying decades of someone else’s weight. After twenty years of being talked over, manipulated, made to feel ... Read more
I used to forget the entire conversations, sometimes just hours after they happened. I’d walk into a room and completely forget why I was there. Names, appointments, simple tasks… gone. My mind felt like a foggy, unreliable mess. For a while, I genuinely thought I was losing it. Maybe I was just getting older? Maybe ... Read more
I thought I had found the one. Instead, I found my worst nightmare. He didn’t show up like a monster. I wished! He showed up like a dream. Attentive, charming, and full of promises that made me believe I would be safe. For a while, I thought I had hit the jackpot. But slowly, and ... Read more
