Recovering from narcissistic abuse is like trying to rebuild a house on an earthquake fault line. If you’re reading this, you’re probably no stranger to feeling like your foundation has been shaken. For me, it started at a very young age, when my family dynamics were less “loving home” and more “survival of the fittest.” … Read more
Ever notice how some people can go through the hardest experiences and somehow come out stronger? Maybe you’ve met someone like that, a friend, a family member, or even yourself. They’re the ones who’ve faced storms that might have sunk anyone else but still stand tall, maybe even thriving. If you’re like most of us, … Read more
So, you’ve got yourself a covert narcissistic father. Congrats, you’ve hit the jackpot of emotional rollercoasters! You might feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells, second-guessing yourself, or wondering why interactions with him always seem to end with you feeling, well, off. It’s not you, it’s him. Trust me on that! And no, you don’t … Read more
Narcissistic abuse is no walk in the park, it’s more like a marathon through a minefield. I can say that because I’ve been there years ago. If you’ve been there, you know that the aftermath isn’t just something you can just “shake off.” The effects run deep, and they stick around like that annoying pop … Read more
Let’s cut the crap, loneliness sucks. It’s that ugly, creeping feeling that shows up when you least expect it, usually right as you’re about to fall asleep or when you’re at a party pretending to enjoy yourself. But here’s the kicker, loneliness isn’t just about not having people around you. Nope. It’s way more insidious … Read more
You’ve just left a narcissistic relationship, whether it’s family or friends, let me be the first to say, congratulations on having the courage to take one of the hardest steps in your life. So, instead of feeling relief, you’re overwhelmed with sadness, trust me I get it. I was there myself a few years ago. … Read more
When you’re healing from narcissistic abuse, the journey can feel like a lonely, uphill battle. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to go through it alone. In fact, the people you surround yourself with during this time can either make or break your progress. Imagine them as your personal army, each with a unique … Read more
Healing from trauma can feel like an uphill battle, especially if you’re trying to do it all on your own. Trust me, I get it. It’s tough to know where to start, and traditional talk therapy doesn’t always cut it. That’s why I’m here to share with you seven types of therapy that can help … Read more
Therapy. The word itself can conjure up images of lying on a couch, spilling your guts to a silent, bearded figure with a notebook. But in reality, therapy is a journey of self-discovery, growth, and occasional awkward silences. I’ve spent my fair share of hours in that room, and here are 15 things I’ve learned … Read more
Alright, let’s get real. Surviving narcissistic abuse is like emerging from a war zone. I’ve been there many many years ago. It’s brutal and messy and it leaves scars, deep, deep scars. But guess what? You’re here, and that’s a victory in itself. I’ve been through 30 years of this crap, and I’m here to … Read more
