99 Focus on Yourself Quotes: Stop Chasing Approval and Start Owning Your Life!

Life’s way too short to waste on worrying about what other people think. I’ve been there, stressing over whether people approved of my choices, my style, my every move. Guess what? It’s exhausting.

And you know what I learned? The moment you stop chasing their approval and start focusing on yourself, the game changes. You stop feeling like a supporting character in your own life and start owning the spotlight.

So if you’ve been feeling like you’re constantly living for everyone else but yourself, these quotes are for you. They’ll remind you to stop the people-pleasing madness and start making decisions that make you happy.

Say “Me First, Always”

  1. “The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.” — Coco Chanel
  2. “You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.” — Maya Angelou
  3. “Don’t wait for permission to live your life. Give yourself permission.” — Anonymous
  4. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” — Oscar Wilde
  5. “Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends.” — Aberjhani
  6. “Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” — Malcolm S. Forbes
  7. “If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.” — Charles Bukowski
  8. “Your time is way too valuable to be wasting on people that can’t accept who you are.” — Turcois Ominek
  9. “To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.” — Robert Morley
  10. “Self-care is how you take your power back.” — Lalah Delia
  11. “You were born to be real, not to be perfect.” — Ralph Marston
  12. “Don’t compromise yourself. You’re all you’ve got.” — Janis Joplin
  13. “The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off.” — Robert Hand
  14. “You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.” — Norm Kelly

Boss Up and Own It

  1. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
  2. “I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.” — Louisa May Alcott
  3. “If you don’t run your own life, somebody else will.” — John Atkinson
  4. “Owning our story can be hard, but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it.” — Brené Brown
  5. “Be a first-rate version of yourself, not a second-rate version of someone else.” — Judy Garland
  6. “You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.” — Zig Ziglar
  7. “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw
  8. “You were put on this earth to achieve your greatest self, to live out your purpose, and to do it courageously.” — Steve Maraboli
  9. “There is no force more powerful than a woman determined to rise.” — W.E.B. Du Bois
  10. “Your life is yours and yours alone. Rise up and live it.” — Terry Goodkind
  11. “Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power.” — Clint Eastwood
  12. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  13. “You have within you right now, everything you need to deal with whatever the world can throw at you.” — Brian Tracy
  14. “Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

You’re Worth It, No Discounts Here

  1. “Know your worth. Then add tax.” — Unknown
  2. “You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.” — Yogi Bhajan
  3. “Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” — Zig Ziglar
  4. “The more you know yourself, the less you let things outside yourself affect you.” — William Chapman
  5. “Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” — Beyoncé
  6. “Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.” — Robert Tew
  7. “Don’t settle for a relationship that won’t let you be yourself.” — Oprah Winfrey
  8. “Self-worth comes from one thing—thinking that you are worthy.” — Wayne Dyer
  9. “You are enough just as you are.” — Meghan Markle
  10. “Once you embrace your value, talents, and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.” — Rob Liano
  11. “The only one who can make you feel unworthy is you.” — Rashida Rowe
  12. “When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.” — Jean Shinoda Bolen
  13. “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” — Buddha
  14. “Self-worth is so vital to your happiness. If you don’t feel good about you, it’s hard to feel good about anything else.” — Mandy Hale

Be Unapologetically, Unmistakably YOU

  1. “Don’t apologize for being yourself.” — Paulo Coelho
  2. “You don’t have to be somebody different to be important. You’re important in your own right.” — Michelle Obama
  3. “Be yourself, but always your better self.” — Karl G. Maeser
  4. “Don’t dilute yourself for any person or any reason. You are enough. Be unapologetically you.” — Steve Maraboli
  5. “Stay true to yourself, yet always be open to learn.” — Phil Jackson
  6. “The only way to deal with the future is to function optimistically as an individual.” — Buckminster Fuller
  7. “I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.” — Rita Mae Brown
  8. “Being your true self is the most effective formula for success there is.” — Danielle LaPorte
  9. “The biggest adventure you can take is to live the life of your dreams.” — Oprah Winfrey
  10. “It is never too late to be what you might have been.” — George Eliot
  11. “Don’t be afraid to stand for what you believe in, even if that means standing alone.” — Andy Biersack
  12. “Be bold, be brave enough to be your true self.” — Queen Latifah
  13. “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.” — Brené Brown
  14. “You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.” — Rosalynn Carter

Stop Waiting for a Round of Applause

  1. “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
  2. “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” — Lao Tzu
  3. “The greatest prison people live in is the fear of what other people think.” — David Icke
  4. “When you truly don’t care what anyone thinks of you, you have reached a dangerously awesome level of freedom.” — Jim Carrey
  5. “Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions.” — Will Smith
  6. “You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep others warm.” — Unknown
  7. “How much time he gains who does not look to see what his neighbor says or does or thinks.” — Marcus Aurelius
  8. “Don’t let anyone rent a space in your head unless they’re a good tenant.” — Unknown
  9. “Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” — Dr. Seuss
  10. “You wouldn’t invite a thief into your house, so why would you let thoughts that steal your joy in?” — Unknown
  11. “As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  12. “The opinion which other people have of you is their problem, not yours.” — Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
  13. “What other people think of you is none of your business.” — RuPaul
  14. “Your life is yours. Stop worrying about what others think and make it amazing.” — Unknown

Keep Your Eyes on Your Own Path

  1. “The only journey is the one within.” — Rainer Maria Rilke
  2. “Your life is a reflection of your thoughts. Think well.” — Unknown
  3. “What we think, we become.” — Buddha
  4. “You can’t depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus.” — Mark Twain
  5. “Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your inner voice.” — Steve Jobs
  6. “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” — Maya Angelou
  7. “Don’t worry about being successful but work toward being significant and the success will naturally follow.” — Oprah Winfrey
  8. “It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.” — Henry David Thoreau
  9. “Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart.” — Carl Jung
  10. “No one can discover you until you do. Exploit your talents, skills, and strengths and make the world sit up and take notice.” — Rob Liano
  11. “Life is about making an impact, not making an income.” — Kevin Kruse
  12. “Keep your eyes on the stars, and your feet on the ground.” — Theodore Roosevelt
  13. “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou
  14. “Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be.” — Asha Tyson

Happiness Starts with You, Not Them

  1. “The most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself.” — Diane von Furstenberg
  2. “Happiness depends upon ourselves.” — Aristotle
  3. “Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” — Dalai Lama
  4. “If you want to be happy, be.” — Leo Tolstoy
  5. “For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  6. “The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are.” — Goldie Hawn
  7. “It isn’t what we say or think that defines us, but what we do.” — Jane Austen
  8. “The purpose of our lives is to be happy.” — Dalai Lama
  9. “You don’t find the happy life. You make it.” — Camilla Eyring Kimball
  10. “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” — Mahatma Gandhi
  11. “There is no way to happiness — happiness is the way.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
  12. “Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” — Abraham Lincoln
  13. “Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness.” — Frank Tyger
  14. “Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get.” — W.P. Kinsella
  15. “The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.” — Oprah Winfrey

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