Who says romance has to involve someone else?
Let’s face it, being in a relationship with yourself might just be the most fulfilling love affair you’ll ever have. And what better way to nurture that relationship than with some sexy, confidence-boosting solo dates?
Whether you’re single, coupled up, or somewhere in between, carving out time to romance yourself is the ultimate power move.
These solo date ideas are all about making you feel like the absolute queen you are.
Light the candles, slip into something that makes you feel unstoppable, and let’s dive into these 12 sexy solo date ideas to treat yourself, because you deserve it.
1. Slip Into Your Favorite Dress for a Fancy Dinner At Home
Who needs a restaurant when you’ve got your own personal chef? (Hint: it’s you!) Put on that little black dress, light some candles, and serve yourself your favorite meal, bonus points for dessert.
2. Book a Spa Day for One
Treat yourself to a day of ultimate relaxation. Think massages, facials, or even just a long soak in a tub with luxurious bath salts and essential oils.
3. Professional Glam-Up Session
Book an appointment with a professional makeup artist and let them work their magic. Whether it’s for a night out or just because you want to feel like a goddess, getting your makeup professionally done is a fabulous way to pamper yourself.
Use this time to learn a few tips and tricks for your everyday routine or go bold and try a new look you’ve always wanted to experiment with. Top it off with a mini photo shoot to capture the glow-up—you’ll feel confident, radiant, and ready to take on the world (or your couch with champagne in hand).
4. Get a Mani-Pedi Done At Your Favorite Spot!
Go to your favorite spot and get yourself clean a beautiful mani-pedi for one! Soak your hands and feet in warm water with essential oils or bath salts, exfoliate with a scrub, and finish with your favorite nail polish. Want to elevate the experience? Try a fun nail art design or use a foot mask for that extra pampering touch.
You’ll not only feel fabulous afterward, but you’ll also get a little confidence boost every time you glance at your nails!
5. Try a DIY Chocolate Tasting
Buy a variety of chocolates (dark, milk, white, flavored), set them up beautifully on a platter, and indulge in a tasting session. Pair with wine or coffee for an extra touch of indulgence.
6. Have a Sexy Reading Night
Slip into something comfortable (or nothing at all), grab a steamy romance or empowering self-help book, and lose yourself in its pages. Bonus points if you read by candlelight or under a cozy blanket fort.
7. Create a Vision Board For Your Dream Life
Turn this into a luxe experience. Pour a glass of wine, light candles, and gather magazines or Pinterest printouts. Dream big and craft a vision board that reminds you how fabulous your future is going to be.
8. Cook a Gourmet Meal You’ve Never Tried Before
Channel your inner chef and tackle a recipe that feels fancy but is still doable. Think truffle pasta, lobster risotto, or a decadent chocolate soufflé. The best part? No pressure to impress anyone but yourself!
9. Splurge on a Gift For Yourself
Been eyeing something special? Go ahead and get it. Whether it’s lingerie, jewelry, or that luxe skincare product, gift yourself something that makes you feel fabulous.
10. Get Artsy With a DIY Paint Night
Set up a canvas, pour a glass of wine, and channel your inner Picasso. Bonus: no one’s there to judge your masterpiece (or mess).
11. Try a Wine Tasting At Home
Grab a few bottles of wine you’ve never tried, create your own tasting notes, and sip your way to a good time. Fancy cheese is optional but highly recommended.
12. Indulge in a Solo Hotel Staycation
Book a room at a swanky hotel, lounge in a fluffy robe, order room service, and bask in the luxury of zero responsibilities for a night.
13. Take a Dance Class (or Dance Around Your Living Room)
Learn a sultry new skill like salsa or burlesque, or blast your favorite playlist at home and dance like no one’s watching—because they aren’t.
14. Plan a Coffee Shop Crawl
Swap the pub crawl for a coffee crawl. Explore the best local coffee shops in your area and savor every latte, cappuccino, or pastry like the queen you are.
15. Go to the Movies Alone (and Splurge on Snacks)
There’s something liberating about watching a film solo. No sharing popcorn, no compromises on the movie choice, and you can ugly cry without judgment.
