My mother is a relentless force of nature. Her every move is driven by her own unwavering belief in the power of beauty and her pursuit of a life where everyone exists to serve her needs. Her values seemed unrealistic to me, and our disagreements were a constant in my life. But what troubled me … Read more
Growing up, I navigated a challenging family dynamic where the term “family” often sounded “complicated and stressful”. The heart of the issue lay in the fact that my mother has a perspective that values beauty and personal gain above all else. This made me the quintessential black sheep, a wanderer unbound by rigid rules. When … Read more
Learning how to deal with narcissist parents can be an emotional battlefield, a journey I’m well-acquainted with. Raised by a mother whose values often seemed worlds apart from mine, I had a very hard time trying to meet her unrealistic expectations growing up. But as the perceived black sheep in the family, I learned to … Read more
After years of dealing with a narcissistic parent, I discovered a powerful and transformative strategy that allowed me to regain control of my life. Sometimes, the most effective approach is not to resist their games but to master them. In this journey, I learned firsthand how to turn the table on a narcissist, using their … Read more
When discussing healing from narcissism, the path to recovery can often seem like an uphill battle. It’s a journey filled with twists and turns, but for me, the key to unlocking healing was a simple yet profound decision: moving away. In this deeply personal account, I’ll share my story of being raised by a narcissist, … Read more
Growing up with narcissist siblings, I found myself caught in the crossfire of conflicting values and unrealistic expectations. In large part, this was all perpetuated by our mother, who believes everyone around her should serve her interests and be discarded if you don’t. This created an atmosphere of constant tension and uncertainty. And because I … Read more
Growing up, I never fully comprehended the toxic and complicated web of dysfunction my family weaved around my narcissistic brother. But as the years passed, I began to recognize the telltale signs that something was not right. When you read this article, you’ll find the journey of self-discovery and understanding that led me to confront … Read more
Since we were young, we’ve always been taught that family is an unbreakable bond, an unwavering support system we can rely on through thick and thin. Little did I know that my journey would take me through the unsettling terrain of dealing with a narcissistic sister. In hindsight, I can see that the signs were … Read more
Growing up with a narcissistic mother, whether she’s in her prime or a narcissistic elderly mother, can feel like navigating a never-ending emotional maze. And I know this all too well, as I’ve spent 30 years trying to understand and cope with the challenges that come with having a narcissistic mom. This journey has taught … Read more
I grew up in the suffocating shadow of a narcissistic mother, enduring three long decades of emotional turmoil. The constant manipulation, gaslighting, and relentless need for control left me feeling like a prisoner in my own life. So in my pursuit of self-preservation, I made the decision to cut off my narcissistic mother. It wasn’t … Read more
