Growing up as the family scapegoat, there was a time when I thought every little hiccup was somehow my fault. It’s like I had a bullseye pointed at me, and let me tell you, being the designated blame receiver wasn’t fun at all. When I realized I didn’t want to play that role forever, I … Read more
Ever wondered what will happen when the scapegoat leaves the family? I know from personal experience that it’s a decision filled with mixed emotions and uncertainty. When I made that choice, I felt a strange blend of liberation and trepidation. It’s like stepping out of a never-ending play where you’ve always played the same role, … Read more
Being the family scapegoat is like wearing a heavy coat of blame, always feeling like you’re in the wrong, no matter what you do. It’s a bit like playing a never-ending game of “pin the blame on the scapegoat” where you’re left feeling misunderstood, isolated, and unfairly treated. I know because I’ve been there. And … Read more
What happens when the family’s designated “troublemaker” defies expectations and achieves success? When the scapegoat becomes successful, it’s like a plot twist in the family drama you never saw coming. My own journey from being the black sheep to achieving success was a rollercoaster of emotions, struggles, and unexpected triumphs. So, if you’ve ever felt … Read more
Have you ever felt like you were living a never-ending game of emotional chess with someone who should have been nurturing and supportive? That was my life growing up. I never asked to be the scapegoat daughter of a narcissistic mother, but that’s the role life dealt me. I was the target of her relentless … Read more
I’ve always believed that our experiences shape us in unique ways. For example, in my journey as the family scapegoat, I’ve discovered a lot about resilience, self-discovery, and healing. This made me think. What if being the family scapegoat isn’t a curse, but a stepping stone to a better, more empowered you? If you’ve always … Read more
Growing up as the family scapegoat wasn’t a walk in the park. The constant criticism, manipulation, and isolation at home left me with some deep scars that messed up my self-esteem, relationships, and overall well-being. In fact, if it weren’t for therapy, I’d probably still be carrying that heavy baggage around. If you’re going through … Read more
I always thought I was destined to be the family’s perpetual scapegoat, taking the blame for everything. But, one day, I realized that being my family’s punching bag was not something I wanted to continue and I decided I’d had enough. I confronted the stigma, questioned my role in a narrative not of my making, … Read more
Like many of you, I have found myself trapped in the web of a narcissistic family. Here, every twist and turn seems to revolve around the ego of one or more family members. And within these challenging dynamics, the concept of scapegoating takes on a particularly toxic form. It’s the blame game, an intricate dance … Read more
Living with a narcissist in the family is an emotional rollercoaster that tests your resilience daily. Believe me, I know, and growing up it sucked big time for me. It was a horrible experience that I wish no one would have to go through when I went through. It is a journey where you’re the … Read more
