Relationships

For years, I lived in a perpetual state of blame, a constant target of my family’s “fix-it” plan. I was the designated problem child, the black sheep, the one on whom every frustration and every insecurity was dumped. It was a suffocating existence, a relentless cycle of criticism and rejection. I felt utterly alone, trapped … Read more

Why am I always the scapegoat? What is so wrong about me? This question has haunted me for as long as I can remember. I feel that I was being constantly blamed, criticized, and held responsible for things that weren’t even my fault. If you feel the same way, don’t let it bother you because … Read more

Growing up as the family scapegoat, there was a time when I thought every little hiccup was somehow my fault. It’s like I had a bullseye pointed at me, and let me tell you, being the designated blame receiver wasn’t fun at all. When I realized I didn’t want to play that role forever, I … Read more

Ever wondered what will happen when the scapegoat leaves the family? I know from personal experience that it’s a decision filled with mixed emotions and uncertainty. When I made that choice, I felt a strange blend of liberation and trepidation. It’s like stepping out of a never-ending play where you’ve always played the same role, … Read more

Being the family scapegoat is like wearing a heavy coat of blame, always feeling like you’re in the wrong, no matter what you do. It’s a bit like playing a never-ending game of “pin the blame on the scapegoat” where you’re left feeling misunderstood, isolated, and unfairly treated. I know because I’ve been there. And … Read more

What happens when the family’s designated “troublemaker” defies expectations and achieves success? When the scapegoat becomes successful, it’s like a plot twist in the family drama you never saw coming. My own journey from being the black sheep to achieving success was a rollercoaster of emotions, struggles, and unexpected triumphs. So, if you’ve ever felt … Read more

Have you ever felt like you were living a never-ending game of emotional chess with someone who should have been nurturing and supportive? That was my life growing up. I never asked to be the scapegoat daughter of a narcissistic mother, but that’s the role life dealt me. I was the target of her relentless … Read more

I’ve always believed that our experiences shape us in unique ways. For example, in my journey as the family scapegoat, I’ve discovered a lot about resilience, self-discovery, and healing. This made me think. What if being the family scapegoat isn’t a curse, but a stepping stone to a better, more empowered you? If you’ve always … Read more

Growing up as the family scapegoat wasn’t a walk in the park. The constant criticism, manipulation, and isolation at home left me with some deep scars that messed up my self-esteem, relationships, and overall well-being. In fact, if it weren’t for therapy, I’d probably still be carrying that heavy baggage around. If you’re going through … Read more

I always thought I was destined to be the family’s perpetual scapegoat, taking the blame for everything. But, one day, I realized that being my family’s punching bag was not something I wanted to continue and I decided I’d had enough. I confronted the stigma, questioned my role in a narrative not of my making, … Read more