Relationships

Life throws curveballs, but perhaps the greatest heartache comes when a close family member does something to hurt you behind your back. Trust me. I know firsthand how it feels to be betrayed by someone I thought would always have my back. My sister threw me under the bus in my time of need, and … Read more

Growing up as the middle child, I was either neglected or constantly blamed for every family hiccup. Compared to my golden child sister who was showered with praise and admiration, all I got was criticism. Fast forward to today, and things are, well, different. I’m happily married, found career success, and living an overall amazing … Read more

Remember that sinking feeling in your stomach after your sister once again managed to twist the narrative, leaving you feeling blamed and misunderstood? Yeah, me too. Growing up with a narcissistic mother and a golden child sister, I know the struggle of having a dysfunctional family relationship. I can still picture the many times she … Read more

Ever feel like your sister secretly plots against your happiness? I get it. Growing up, my narcissistic mom gave my sister the golden child treatment.  But while she was showered with affection and admiration, her path to adulthood wasn’t exactly paved with roses. Now, my older sibling is jealous of me, her friends, and anyone … Read more

Ugh, sisterly love, right? Sometimes it’s sunshine and giggles, other times it’s a full-blown thunderstorm of jealousy. Yeah, that sums up my experience with my sis. Growing up, she was the golden child, while I, well, let’s just say I marched to the beat of my own drum. So, imagine her surprise (and let’s be … Read more

We all dream of having picture-perfect sibling connections. But what if reality throws you a curveball, and they become the source of your stress? Having a difficult relationship with a sister is no walk in the park. Trust me, I would know. I grew up with a narcissistic mother who viewed my sister as her … Read more

It’s never easy to cut someone out of your life, especially family. But when their toxicity is turning your life into a living nightmare, cutting ties is sometimes the only way to save yourself. Trust me, I’ve been there. My sister was a master manipulator who left me emotionally drained and confused. But guess what? … Read more

For many, sisterly bonds can be magical. For me, though? Not so much. Growing up with a narcissistic mom and a golden child sister was, well, let’s just say not exactly a Hallmark movie. But after years of navigating a less-than-ideal family dynamic, I’ve found ways to protect my well-being and reclaim my sanity. And … Read more

Do you find yourself walking on eggshells around your sister, trying to avoid her wrath? Yep, me too. Thanks to my narcissistic mom, my sister and I were basically estranged siblings. She pitted us against each other, labeling her the golden child, and me, the scapegoat. But guess what? I was able to find my … Read more

Having a brother or sister can be amazing, but sometimes they can also be…well, toxic. Like, instead of harmless squabbles over the remote, it’s more like navigating a minefield of negativity. Trust me, I get it. My sister, let’s just say, isn’t exactly sunshine and rainbows. Plus, growing up with a narcissistic mom who sees … Read more